Bad Actions Don’t Make Us Bad People

A lot has gone on in my life recently that has rocked me to my core.

I don’t want to go into it all but I really feel that I want to share what it has taught me as it may help someone else.

When people do things that we view as “bad”; things that upset us or that we see as unfair to others; it helps us if we understand that they are acting from a place of fear.

We’ve probably all heard the saying, “Hurt people, hurt people” and it is very true.

We have a choice with how we act and react: we can come from a place of fear, or choose to come from a place of love. When we are being unkind to others, our actions are coming from a place of fear.

It might be something that has triggered us from something that happened in the past; a repeating pattern that reminds us of some kind of trauma; usually from our childhood or it can even be from a past life.

So what should we do?

We can’t fight fire with fire, because the only thing thats going to happen if we add fire to fire….you guessed it – we just get more fire!

What we need to do is try to extinguish the flames. So we should see love as water that extinguishes the fear.

All that everyone is seeking is love. To be loved. So by giving them love, we are extinguishing their fear.

There is no one better than anyone else; we are all equal. It’s just some of us are more fearful than others so we shouldn’t see people who do “bad” things as “bad” people.

It might not always be easy in extreme situations but we can back off, walk away and send love to them or the situation.

This is what I do by setting intentions with Reiki and sending them or the situation loving, healing energy. It’s super powerful!

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There are also lots of bite size spiritual courses available to help you with your spiritual development.

Just click on the link below to find out more and join us today! I can’t wait to welcome you to my tribe! 

Reik really is THE best gift you can give yourself for healing and manifestation. I really want to help you live your best life possible just as I have.

If you have any questions about healing through love or my Reiki course, please get in touch – I would love to help you.

Sending you all my love and blessings right now.


Love Jan xxx ❤️🙏❤️ 

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